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The simple principle I experimented for overcoming fear and building self confidence that realized my dreams.

Praveenben — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 09:58:32 +0000

overcoming fear means building self confidence. Fear and doubt are two important hurdles in the path to building self confidence. Our ambition remain as dream, unless and until we overcome the fear.

Overcoming fear of English language

Until I complete my graduation, I have studied in my regional language i.e. my mother tongue. As I was a product of Rural India the subject of English appeared Greek and Latin. After education, I was forced to appear for competitive examinations to get my employment. Getting the job is a compulsion for me to look after my dependents. Thus I have no choice but to face the battle with English medium. I was mentally prepared and determined to appear for the examinations. I read English news papers, watched the English news in television.

On the day of examination, somehow I marshaled my energies and proceeded with heavy heart and abnormal pulse rate.I did not know how I finished the examination. With that experience, I started appearing for all the competitive examinations in English medium. The fear of “English Language” was considerably reduced if not eliminated altogether.

Overcoming fear of facing conferences

After appearing for many examinations, finally I became a “Tax Man” highest civil service in the State Administration.

Now as administrator, I need to attend conferences called by my boss. Facing the Boss appeared to be stressful for me. That was the first conference. My body chemistry had been changing; it was getting ready by sensing perceived threat. I entered into the conference hall with stressful mind. Conference was completed and stressful chemicals withdrew from my body. I attended conferences regularly and got adjusted to the change.

Overcoming fear of public speaking

In those days’ Government of Andhra Pradesh contemplated the introduction of Value Added Tax system in the State of Andhra Pradesh. My boss appointed me as one of the resources persons to conduct training classes for the departmental personnel and trade unions. My fearful mind was not ready for facing that situation. Ihad no experience of standing on the stage and giving lectures. Almost three days I was sleepless. However, I had no option but live up to the expectation of my boss. Although my mind was not comfortable with this thought, I prepared day and night.

The day has come on which I had to conduct the class by myself. I had proceeded to the stage with bated breathe and started my lecture. One hour completed. I did not know how I completed my class. Thereafter I lead series of seminars, workshops. The new assignment which caused a lot of pain in my heart initially turned into a pleasurable exercise. In fact, I enjoyed each minute of it.

Principle I followed for overcoming fear

If, I deeply dwell on all the events of my life, I realized that I overcome my fear by attempting the same thing which I am fearful about most.. My intense passion and compulsions forced me to face the fears. The simple principle for overcoming fear and building self confidence is thus an intense passion plus attempting the same thing that you fear.

If you have fear or doubt about anything in your life, attempt or venture the same activity that you fear. Over a period of time any activity becomes effort less habit. This simple principle can alone remove your fear and doubt. Not attempting or running away on the feeling of fear or doubt will get you nowhere. You remain fearful and frustrated all your life. You miss a lot of opportunities and enjoyment. This is the only proven principle for overcoming fear and building self confidence.

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Overcome Hurt: Why did My Boss Describe Me As worth less? Am I Really Worth Less?

Praveenben — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 08:05:42 +0000

Overcome hurt as it causes emotional pain and anguish. Hurt is generated by a sense of loss of self esteem. Nevertheless, in my life the emotion of hurt brought the biggest success, and it transformed my life.

My moments of anxiety and frustration

Those are the days that I was working as Senior Assistant in the Office of APPSC, Hyderabad, India. It was June, 1994 when I was anxiously waiting for the results of Group-I examination (highest civil service job in the state). This was my 3rd attempt, and therefore, I was hopeful of my success. That day as usual I went to the office. That was about 11 AM I was told by a friend that results shall be declared today. Immediately, my pulse rate escalated. My heart beat quickened . My mind was screening the mixed emotions of frustration and joy. It was about 3 PM. Just I had completed my lunch then I came to know results were being displayed in the notice board. I Immediately got down from upstairs and proceeded towards the notice board. While, my heart beat was fast I glanced at the results and to my utter disappointment my number was not figured. I checked twice but no use.

It becomes very difficult to control the tears, welled up in my eyes. My colleagues were asking about my results, I was unable to put my words. While my thoughts skimming, 6 years of hard struggle, I slowly climbed up to my office room. I want to get away from the office as my colleagues pouring and asking about the results.

Deepest hurt in my life(I overcome hurt and achieved the great success.)

I proceeded towards my boss chamber, before leaving the office and disclosed about my fate in the examination and to my shock, he was responded by saying “ you are over confident of results, but I anticipated this outcome, because you don’t have the capacity to face this examination”With that reply my fury gushed and within my mind, I lashed out against him and said, one day I will prove my capacity. With these hurt thoughts, I left the office.

The words of my boss keep on hurting my mind. My energies are too weak to overcome hurt caused by him. My inner self also posing, was he correct that I did not have that capacity? Was he right? Then why I failed, in the earlier 3 attempts. Some how my logical mind does not accept these negative thoughts. I know my drawbacks and limitations. I can neither afford expensive coaching nor did I have proper guidance. I did not have mentors to support me. My parents were too ignorant to boost my morale.

How I overcome the emotion of hurt

I have decided to face the same examination once again. This was my 4th attempt. My wife left to her native town to join with her parents as it was her delivery time, and we were awaiting our 2nd baby. I was alone in my house for two months, Preparing for another battle. The bitter words of my boss pierced deep into my heart and hurting my mind. For two months, I was cut off from this world. I was dipped in the heap of Books. After two months I finished my examinations.

Release the inner energies to overcome hurt

In the meantime I was blessed with the second baby boy. While I was enjoying my fatherhood, long awaited results breached my buried feelings, discharging the emotions of joy and ecstasy, displacing the emotion of hurt. I was topped the list in my respective category, the out burst of emotions of this individual was understandable because he ascended the mountain from its base and reached the summit after undergoing eight years of hard struggle.

overcoming hurt is bringing out your creative capacities

This was the party time, all of my colleagues joined for celebration and my boss was heading the party. In his speech, he extolled me so much so that my deep sense of hurt, got evaporated. My boss words which caused the deepest hurt, in fact, triggered my passions, electrified my nerves and accentuated my mind. This heavy heart and its suffering was ultimately resulted in the grandest joy in my life. The words of my Boss caused the deepest hurt initially, yet brought blissfulness into my heart. I remain grateful for him for he taught how to overcome hurt indirectly which I never forget in my life.

The only best way to overcome the hurt

Is it not the best way to overcome hurt? The emotion of hurt propels us into action, turns the pain into pleasure. The emotion of hurt is not our enemy it is our friend. The emotion of hurt is an opportunity to explore our potential. If we succumb to the pain of hurt, it drives away our energies and vitality. Don’t be subdued by the pain of hurt rather you overcome hurt. My best wishes to you. Go ahead.

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Fear of public speaking: Why did I Frighten to Give a Simple Presentation Before My Colleagues?

Praveenben — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 09:40:10 +0000

public speaking is impossible, without killing your low self esteem. Low self esteem is resulting of childhood thoughts and memories about you. Our childhood thoughts and memories always torment us and capture our realistic mind. Our life is quintessence of eternal battle between childhood emotional mind and mature realistic mind.

Fear of public speaking is one of my dreadful fears.

Public speaking is one of my dreadful fears. I used to avoid such situations and feel shameful about it in my pre-teen years. How ever some how I manage to overcome the fear of public speaking in compelling circumstances.

MANAGE is an apex national institute under the ministry of agriculture Govt. of India. The institute is located in the serene surroundings of Rajendra Nagar, 15 Kms away from city of Hyderabad. A team of Commercial Taxes Officials were undergoing weekly training in that institute. This team of officials, including me, was handpicked to equip with the skills of management and leadership.The Commercial Taxes department was getting ready on the Eve of introduction of VAT in the State of Andhra Pradesh.

While the first five days of the training were instructional in nature, the last two days were allotted for evaluation of trainees. Training was progressing very happily. We were thrilled by the State of art training facilities and picturesque ambiance of the institution. Five days were completed; the trainers initiated the evaluation process. Each trainee was given a specific topic for preparation and presentation. As the process begun, I started my preparation. I was under deep stress as the fear of public speaking mounting pressure on me. Low self esteem influencing subtly in my mind even though I prepared very seriously.

Presentation of the topics by the trainees was commenced and my turn was fifth. My heart beat rose, while my colleagues were completing their presentations one by one. My turn has come. My fear of public speaking has changed my body chemistry. With bated breath and paralysis of thoughts, I began my presentation. my fear of public speaking as usually interrupted my thought process and somehow my presentation was finished.

Childhood limiting beliefs responsible for the fear of public speaking

If one replay the sequence of events; one can realize that it was a simple task and can be accomplished effortlessly with small preparation. However, why my heart was very stressful and turned out to be heavy? Why I was gripped with fear and reacted disproportionately? Childhood memories of low self esteem continuously haunt me. Childhood limiting beliefs deeply stuck in my mind. My efforts could not eliminate such beliefs completely in spite of success I achieved.

habituate public speaking to overcome the fear

After that incident I never shun away from the opportunity of public speaking. As a VAT resource person I have conducted series of meetings. In fact, I become a regular speaker in many occasions. My performance before the officers of Eastern Naval Command was an unforgettable event in my life. At last I am able to overcome the fear of public speaking.

My childhood limiting beliefs were re-framed to a larger extent. Perceived disadvantages, now appears to be advantageous. Low self esteem transforming into higher self esteem. Mind you; childhood beliefs long last unless efforts are made to re-frame them, positively interpreted, they continue to affect you all your life. Overcoming fears including the fear of public speaking can be possible by building self confidence.

Each one of you might have experienced such similar incidents in your life. Understand that the conflicting forces of negative emotions and positive emotions continuous to fight each other. Your success depends on which force prevails over other. Don’t allow your childhood limiting beliefs to hijack your realistic mind. Attempt any task with this self awareness. Conscious act of realistic mind turns the difficult task into simple one.

Building self esteem can only overcome the fears

Building self confidence is a process of neutralizing the effects of emotional mind. Building higher self esteem is a process of overcoming fears. Attempting the task on which you have fear can only eliminate the fear. Attempt public speaking whenever opportunity comes. Over a period of time, you become an expert. All the great speakers had undergone this process.

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The fear of death and the fear of failure is a learned response; Understanding the evolution of fear can help overcoming fears.

Praveenben — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 09:47:19 +0000

The fear of failure, the fear of death is a learned emotion. All the emotions are impulses to act. Love and fear are the basic emotions for the survival of the species.The emotion of fear prepares the body either to fight or to flight in the event of danger to our life.

Fear of death and all other fears are learned responses

Jackie Bibby, the Texas “snake man” spent about 45 minutes in a see-through bathtub with 87 rattle snakes for Guinness World records. The snakes crawled all over his body, between his arms and legs, but not bite him. The snakes not bite him because he was stayed still in the tub. Even if rattle snakes are replaced with non-poisonous snakes, we cannot venture such a task. However, a small child, who not yet learn t the fear of snakes, can sit in the bathtub without any fear. This child not yet learn t the fear of snakes. Once he learns he too cannot venture such a risk. Fear of death is thus a learned response.

Exercising discretion can neutralize the fear

Fear is our trusted friend, it warns us of danger, it reminds of past experiences. It is only a warning signal. We may act or ignore, using our discretion. We are not supposed to react for every single warning. Unless you consciously subdue it, fear will capture the situation, and you remain a silent spectator.

Some people die everyday with the thoughts of theft, thoughts of loss, which never takes place. However, they experience that fears everyday and subject their body with anxiety and stress unnecessarily. The signal of danger asks us to take certain precautions. Otherwise the impulse has no significance. Just we have to ignore it.

The fear of failure is a stumbling block for our growth

Many people suffer the fear of failure. This fear immobilizes them and not allows them to take even a small risk. However, as a child we used to take all sorts of risks. In the fear of failure, there is no threat to life. Then why do we fear? It is fear of rejection. The fear of rejection is a big stumbling block that not allows us to take even smallest risks, and we confine to mediocre life. Can children learn walking without falling down? We don’t realize such a simple life principle.

Evolution of fear of death

Understand the evolution of emotions. The fear of death plays a crucial role in the life of birds, fish and reptiles. Their body responds instantaneously without the intervention of conscious mind. The emotion of fear precedes the thought that saves their life. However, in human life, with the advancement of civilization, threat to life was minimized to the larger extent. The emotion of fear, therefore, had a negligible role in our lives. However, we are continuous to be affected by the fear of death.

Human evolution is not in pace with human civilization. We always play safe under the influence of fear of loss or fear of failure. Playing safe is nothing but, limiting our potential. Mind you, the fear of death is root cause of all other fears. It is a learned response you can unlearn it with conscious mind.

Our conscious mind continuously captures by emotional mind. Success stories of others motivate us, but it is short lived. We are pretty sure of our knowledge and expertise. However, the fear of rejection or failure over takes and over power the conscious mind. The emotion of fear rooted in our psyche very deeply, and it is very difficult to uproot it, unless the intensified passion and determination subdue the fear.

Overcoming fear of death with spiritual thoughts

Indian spiritual philosophy advocates that body and mind are physical but the real you are non physical. You are an invisible, infinite reservoir of pure energy that sustains the body and mind. You feel eternal by shifting focus.

A person enjoying each minute of life does not think or afraid of death. We require tomorrow as today is unfulfilled. Do not focus on the things on which you have no control. Leave them to the discretion of the God. Your job here is living the life totally each minute.

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Fear of driving: Discover your passion to lead a fear less and passionate life.

Praveenben — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 10:16:28 +0000

Overcoming fear is easy once you understand what passionate life is. Fear of driving is like any other fear is born of fear of death or fear of loss. Passion displaces all your fears. Discovery of your passion opens the volcano of your potential and drives out all your fears. Have you discovered your passion? passionate life is equal to happy and fulfilling state of mind. Life without passion is equal to unhappy and unfulfilled state of mind. A person with passion overcomes all the fears including the fear of driving. In today’s world majority people are living in a life of unhappy and unfulfilled life.

what is passion?

Passion is an intense emotion, unusual excitement or enthusiasm about something. It compels us into action. Passionate life overcomes all fears including fear of driving, fear of public speaking. Passion is a fuel for venturing into even toughest task.

My passion of driving outweighs the fear of death.

My passion is driving a car. I have this passion right from my early days. Whenever an opportunity comes, I don’t miss my driving. No matter whatever the distance, I drive my car myself. I enjoy driving especially in access route to the mountain ranges and rough terrain. Whenever I go to my village, I don’t miss driving a tractor also. I was not imparted any driving training in any driving school. In spite of no training, I am able to drive my car effortlessly. I feel unusual excitement and even long hours of driving does not exhaust me.

Passion on driving can only overcome fear of driving.

As I am very passionate on driving, I encouraged my spouse to drive. She was imparted training twice by driving school. In spite of training, she was not confident enough to drive a car. She is still striving to overcome the fear. This experience proves the fact that mere training does not suffice. Training coupled with passion can only propel you into action. Passion on driving can only overcome fear of driving.

Are you leading a passionate life? Is your job giving happiness? If it is not giving you happiness then you are not living life passionately. Any activity with passion gives us happiness and excitement. Endorphins are filled in the blood and each cell of the body oxygenated fully. It drives away disease from your body, you are rejuvenated and life will be lively. Life without passion is a life without life. Lifelessness is the misery, facing the humanity today.

Many people struggle hard to turn ideas into action. Many people not even attempt or pursue their cherished dreams. Their fear of failure or rejection captures their mind and paralyses their rationale thinking. The emotion of passion can only subjugate the emotion of fear and drives us into action. Identifying the passion is crucial in life.

How to discover your passion?

How to discover your passion? Are you envious of something or somebody? It is an indication of the deepest desire of you. Are you admiring somebody and elated by their achievements it is an indication of innate longing to feel the same emotions? Recollect the experiences of your life when you feel most alive, happy and loved. All such experiences give us cues to find your passion.

Passionate life is fearless and pleasurable life.

Discovery of your passion ignites your energy and drives out all your fears including fear of driving. Once fears are driven out, pursuing your dreams and achieving success is automatic. Your attempt of the task is to gain sheer pleasure of it. Remember knowledge does not lead you into action. It is the passion, which can mobilize your body into action, fill your mind with ecstasy. Passionate life is living the life with joy. All extra ordinary people live life with passion. Passionate life is the secret of their super performance. Discover your passion and explore your true potential. Be passionate about driving, the fear of driving evaporates

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Personal Achievement: Get rid of Slavery from our five Senses and Social Perceptions

Praveenben — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 10:43:07 +0000

Massive social conditioning

We are slaves to five senses and social perceptions. We lost our original identity under the influence of massive social conditioning. Our restlessness and frustration are symptoms of this slavery. Unless conscious steps are taken to get back our original identity, we perish under the false perceptions.

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We are highly evolved living organisms in the world. We are endowed with super intelligence, iron willpower and the faculty of discretion. Many great people demonstrated this truth time and again. But unfortunately we lost sight of our identity as a human being and its endowments. We rarely use these great gifts. We became slaves to our five senses and false social perceptions. We are out powered by the social perceptions imposed by the society.

We misuse the faculty of discretion

You are in a restaurant with friends and family. You are about to decide what to order off the menu. As you glimpse at the menu, there are many choices. Saliva whipped up in your mouth on the imagination of chicken, fish and prawn. You want to order all varieties of food as your mood was so elated. Your discretion cautioned you that you are already obese, therefore, avoid them. Now there is a fight between the conflicting forces of emotional mind and your discretionary mind. Finally, the emotions out played the discretion to win the battle. You failed to apply the faculty of discretion. You enjoyed every single item of food. This is a common scene enacted by every one of us very often. One of the big problems faced by mankind today is obesity and related diseases. Obesity treatment is a biggest industry today. We became a slave to our tongue. Our faculty of discretion is too weak to overwhelm our five senses. We became slaves to sense of smell and taste.

Our five senses are thus causing havoc

Today any home not equipped with television is unimaginable. This entertaining box is flooded with hundreds of nonsense channels. In the name of live programs, everybody entered into your drawing room. They are playing cricket, conducting political meetings and doing all sorts of things in front of you. All of us including children glued to this idiot box. The faculty of discretion warns you consistently. However, we don’t heed to its advice. Our life priorities are taking back seat. We become slaves to sense of audio vision. Our five senses are thus causing havoc in our lives.

We know the harmful effects of liquor. Our social values do not encourage alcoholism. Nevertheless, we found bars in every nook and corner of our country. For labourers and rural men Alcoholism become the one and only source of entertainment. It is destroying the social fabric of human life. Our rational mind cautioning of ill effects, are brushed aside by our emotional mind. We are addicted to sense of taste. Our five senses thus ruining our health.

Products and services reach us through the media of Advertisement.Cosmetic marketing blackmail and undermine our physical attributes. Under its deep influence, we feel inferior. Low self esteem affected by social media sabotages our careers and relationships. False perceptions mask our discretionary powers. Social perceptions thus transform us into slaves.

We are slaves to the perceptions of the others

We see many ntrepreneurs with limited knowledge and experience become successful. However, our educated unemployed hijacked by the social perceptions continue to feel that entrepreneurship is a difficult task. They never questioned the false perceptions imposed by the society. They never apply the faculty of their discretion. We lost our sense of entrepreneurship. We remain as slaves to the perceptions of the others and lead frustrating life.

Human beings are the only living beings, endowed with the gifts of intelligence, discretion and will power. We have forgotten this greatest truth. We are the slaves to our five senses and social perceptions. We are yet to be liberated; we are yet to be transcended animal life.

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What is love? Resolve the mystery of real love from 5 real life experiences that transforms your life.

Praveenben — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 10:50:10 +0000

what is love? What real love is? Here are 5 common life experiences in which you can feel different facets of love. You can also realize that your original nature is love but not fear; belief but not doubt; peace but not anxiety and frustration.

5 Real life experiences to decide yourself what is love?

1) Remember your childhood. When you were cradled in the lap of your mother, you experience the gentle touch of her skin. You feel warmth of caressing hand, soothing voice of her singing. Her cuddling and cooing will please your senses and give you utmost comfort. If some unknown person grabbed you away from your mother, you cry and feel discomfort. This childhood experience demonstrates that in the presence of love you are comfortable and in the presence of fear you are not comfortable. Then what is love? Love is comfort and joy.
2) You are going on urgent work. You are entangled in heavy traffic. Traffic was not cleared. Your peace of mind disrupted. You are walking on the sands of beach, enjoying the weaves of sea, experiencing the cool breeze and listening to the ruffles of palm trees. You are in the state of peace and happiness. Peace of mind, thus, comforts you. Lack of peace frustrates you. Then what is love? Love is peace of mind. Love is a connection with the nature and other beings. It is not disconnection or separation from other things.
3) You have indulged in a corrupt or immoral activity. You are experiencing anxiety and a sense of guilty. You are in a state of worry.

You got some idea, which you feel had potential and value. Immediately, you put together the team and a business entity was emerged. It is growing and giving good dividends. You are excited.

When you indulge in a corrupt or immoral practice, the fear of punishment or social rejection causes you discomfort. When you are executing yours own creative idea, you are exploring your inherent creative capacity. Then what is love? Love is hope and belief.

4) You are rich but selfish. You don’t help or care anybody. You don’t command any respect from others. You feel ignored and isolated. In case you love and share your riches with your fellow people you feel a sense of satisfaction? Their love overwhelms you with a sense of contribution.

Your selfishness never gives happiness. Frustration marks your life and where as love and compassion towards needy give you a deep sense of satisfaction and fulfillment. Then what is love? Love is caring and contribution. Love is bringing happiness in the lives of less fortunate.

5) You are on the challenging task of trekking and scaling the mountain. After a lot of effort and determination, you have reached the summit of the mountain; you are overwhelmed with joy; tears are rolled out. Happiness erupts in the form of big smiles. You will have a sense of power. In case you have retreated from the challenge out of fear of falling or death. You are in the state of defeat. Your heart is filled with shame and worry. Overcoming the fear gives you a sense of courage otherwise you end up with a sense of loss and worry. Then what is love? Love is courage and determination. Love is overcoming fear.

What is your original nature?

The above experiences demonstrate; who are you? What is your original nature? You are a creative being and your original nature is love but not fear , belief and courage but not doubt, joy but not misery. If you remember your childhood days you can acknowledge your true nature. Fear, doubt, selfishness is learnt experiences. They won’t give comfort to you.

what is real love?

Real love is an experience of connection with others. It is unity with someone or something outside you. When you are in connection with somebody you do not feel selfish. When a person is in a state of real love he does not feel either superior or inferiorto somebody. In this state, you feel others pain or joy. Real love does not hesitate to apologize. Real love is not judgmental. Real love experiences connection with the God and shares all the problems. Real love is hope and optimism. Real love is fearlessness.

Love and relationships.

Love and relationships explain what real love is. In a genuine married relationship partner understand each others problem. They never ridicule partner’s fears of money, car driving, ageing, loneliness etc. They share each others thoughts openly and there are no secrets. There is no place for sarcasm and hurting in a genuine relationship. Genuine marriage relationship is possible only when you experience alignment and connection with your partner.
Whatever the relationship viz; friendship relation, parent and children relation, teacher and student relation, boss and employee relation, love is an essential ingredient that strengthens the relationship. As long as your thoughts and actions are in close proximity with your original nature, you are at joy and peace. Complete deviation from your original nature brings anxiety and frustration in your life and ultimately perishes you.

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Discover your creativity and innovation simply by observing the mystical works of bird and honey bee.

Praveenben — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 11:59:01 +0000

Creativity and innovation enables living organisms highly adoptive and responsive to the situation that they are living in.

Mysterious creativity of Birds and Honey Bees

Where did the birds learn the fascinating skill of making nests?

: Creativity Of Bird

All of you know that birds make a nest before laying their eggs. Keen observation of different kinds of nests reveals that birds make them very skill fully to protect its eggs. Where did the birds learn the skill of making nests? Does anybody teach them how to make a nest? It is the inherent and inborn creative capacity.

How did the Honey Bee make a marvelous structure of Honey Comb?

: Creativity Of Honey Bees

Have you observed honey comb? It is a beautiful and uniform structure of hexagonal cells of wax ? Honey comb is a marvelous engineering structure of creativity. The creative skill of bee is a response to the survival impulse for the storage of honey and to protect the eggs.

We are all born creative:

: We Are All Born Creative

Creativity is an unlearned response, characteristic of the given species. It is a natural impulse. It is innate and inherited tendency or behavior. It is intuitive in nature occurring without conscious thought or judgment. Being creative does not come from outside. It comes from within. We are all born creative. All the species in the planet exhibit a specific characteristic for the protection of eggs or it’s off springs. Creativity is thus a survival mechanism evolved in the evolution of species.

Creativity is an inborn ability to survive;

: Creative Is An Inborn Ability

Creativity and innovation are the behavioral response to the situation in which we are living in in. We always find a way to survive. It is necessary for well being and continuity of species. We, being highly evolved species on the planet, are born with enormous resources of creativity. If anybody tells you that the creativity and innovation are an asset of few individuals, don’t believe them. You, I and everyone possess infinite creativity and innovation within ourselves.

Low self esteem kill our creativity;

: Low self esteem kill our creativity

Although we are highly creative, yet our actions are not creative and innovative. Our creativity is in a dormant state. It is because our education system does not encourage creativity or innovation. Is it because religious gurus preaching are illogical? The environment in which we are living is not conducive for creative thinking. In our natural state, we are superior beings; this natural state was covered by religious stigma, illogical traditions and limiting social beliefs. Unless you cross these imaginary hurdles, you cannot discover your original nature. Listen to your instincts; allow your intuition to guide your activities.

Your creative ideas come from the unconscious mind. Ninety nine percent of our mental activity is unconscious. Your perceptual awareness is only a tip of the iceberg. Don’t weigh your decisions on your conscious awareness alone. If all of us continuous to follow what others saying, where is the scope for our creativity to blossom? Hence break the rules, chart unknown paths and explore new relationships. Many people in our society are half fed, scantly clothed. They are very tough and willing to work hard. Problems of society call forth a lot of creativity and innovation. Thinking beyond the habitual mode is a prerequisite for exploring our creativity and innovation. As we are born creative, let us address the problems of the society in creative ways. Let our creativity and innovation (leadership skill) blossom more profusely in our life.

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Video:Lessons from honey bee and birds that can trigger your creative problem solving.

Praveenben — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 08:29:55 +0000

Marvelous structure of Honey Comb.How did the Honey Bee, make a marvelous structure of Honey Comb? It is a beautiful, and uniform structure of, hexagonal cells of wax. Honey comb is, a marvelous engineering structure of creativity. The creative skill of bee is, a response to the survival impulse, ——–> Watch Video.

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