Loving marriage demands 6 Simple changes in your life

Loving marriage and its intimate pleasures are the most vivid memories and exciting experiences in the lives of couple. But this ecstasy of relationship is being short lived and Love is disappearing in marriage relationships very soon. Majority couples are experiencing Loveless marriage in their lives and this change leading to divorce in certain cases.

The phrases like “I don’t love my spouse” ‘“My spouse not loving me” “It was a loveless marriage” are often reverberating from the people who are on the edge of divorce and the rate of divorce rising with alarming proportions. Lack of intimacy and lack of love are fundamental problems in relationships. Obviously, improving love or intimacy is the only solution. Let us find out the problems so that you can fix them up.

1.Lack of quality time for spending together intimately :

In the early days of a marriage couple attracts each other, which leads to an intimacy and joyful sexual relationship. However, over the period, kids come into their lives and Job responsibilities increases. An attraction between the couple won’t stay for a long period. Real love and understanding between the couple must be nurtured by each other before it impacts the marriage relationship.

Marriage is most important, intimate, fulfilling and enduring relationship. To sustain and enjoy this relationship couple must carve out quality time very often to spend together. They may go for a morning walk, short weekend tours etc. They can explore good number opportunities if they intended so.

None of the relationships should overtake marriage relationship. The happy couple often recollects their sweet memories and celebrates creatively. This change of giving importance to the marriage relationship is the foundation of loving marriage.

2.Love is not begging:

Love is not anticipation from others. Love is something which we give to others. As a parent we give love to our children. Giving love generates happy chemicals in our body. It gives pleasure and satisfaction. The secret of loving marriage is giving love rather than expecting it.

3.Loving marriage relationship is unique:

Relationship involved in a marriage is unique and should not be equated with other relations. In loving marriage, couple live for themselves. explores and experiment the depths of intimacy. They don’t allow others to influence and affect their relationship

4.Jealousy and Judgmental:

Partners in the marriage relationship are not competitors. Their relation is rather complementary. Unfortunately, many couples forget this commonsense and subject their relationship with comparison and competition. Loving couple appreciates each other. Any small effort is complimented. Each other progress is shared and celebrated by another partner. This small change brings vitality and strengthens their relationship.

5.Criticism and sarcastic remarks:

Criticism and sarcastic words put emotional flooding on the partner and generates counter criticism. Such events are red signals in the relationship. Unless the criticism is replaced with encouragement and appreciation, the situation will not come to normal. Forgiveness and flexibility neutralize badly changed atmosphere.

6.Marriage is an agreement to disagree, but not an agreement to agree :

Marriage is an acknowledgment of gender difference and their innate emotions. Men and women are quite different in biology and its emotions. Their emotional chemistry varies and it was designed for perfect parenting. The couple who forgets this common sense fell into conflicting situations. They need emotional fine-tuning to balance the chemistry. All the emotional disturbances in a married relationship are results of three un fulfilling deepest needs i.e. to be loved, to be respected and fear of abandonment. Fulfillment of these needs by each other sustains loving marriage relationship.

The Enemy responsible for Disruption of loving Marriage.

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